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So I said it before & I’ll mention it again: Dean blamed Metatron for TWO specific things that he had done that Dean deemed unforgiveable: Kevin’s death, and stealing Cas’ grace. For hurting Cas. For taking Cas away from him, because without taking that grace none of this would have happened, Cas would never have had to leave him.

Dean rates hurting Cas as being equal with Kevin dying.