It’s lovely that Robin Thicke thinks his marriage is worth saving, but this is not the way to go about it. This entire album, the track names, the hashtag; if this is in fact a sincere effort to “get her back” it’s basically a how-to on abuser dynamics. Rather than allowing Patton the time and space to decide whether or not to reconcile in private, with this album, Thicke has effectively enlisted the public to get on his side and pressure her into going back to him, and make her the villain if she refuses. “Oh, but he wrote a whole album about her! He’s really sorry!” All while he rakes in the cash, and she loses her resolve to stay away from a man who cheated on her, publicly embarrassed her and ruined a decades long relationship.
BattyMamzelle: Let’s Talk About Robin Thicke’s Manipulative Ploy To “Get Her Back” (via brutereason)
OH MY GOD!! YESSS!! YESSSSSS!! I BEEN SAYING THE SAAAAME SHIT! THIS IS MANIPULATIVE AND ABUSIVE AND THAT MAN KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT HE’S DOING.
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Hey look the guy who wrote the date rape anthem of 2013 is a manipulative abuser to his ex-wife I mean who woulda’ thunk it!
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If this happened to me, I would probably ignore any previous impulses to give it another chance and just cut my losses.
Not just because of how fucking creepy it is, but also because I tend to go the opposite way from the way I’m being pushed.
Ok, so the thing where stuff I didn’t say gets attributed to me has happened again. Any one know how to fix it?
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