theasexualityblog:

I don’t understand the reasoning behind the statement “You just haven’t met the right person yet”. 

One, that’s making the assumption that I’m somehow incomplete because I don’t have this miraculous “other half”, or that there’s something wrong with me because of my orientation. 

Two, that demeans literally every other relationship I have because none of the people in my life are “right” enough to suddenly change who I am and make me experience sexual/romantic attraction.

Three, that’s an incredibly unfair expectation to put on any partner that I do have. To put the pressure on them to be “the one” is a high order and no person is that miraculous. This isn’t a fairy tale, and a kiss from my “one true love” isn’t going to “break the spell” of my orientation. 

Realistic expectations are important.