theasexualityblog:

Being aroace but wanting a significant other in theory is so frustrating.

I want THAT kind of relationship in my head, but I’m not mentally/emotionally/physically equipped to be in such a dynamic.

Do I want to kiss a partner? Yes, in theory. Yes, in fantasy. In reality….no not so much.

Do I want to cuddle a partner? Yes, in theory. Yes, in fantasy. In reality….no not so much.

Do I want to live together/share a bed/build a life? Yes, in theory. Yes, in fantasy. In reality….no not so much.

FML.