furiousgoldfish:

how to anger an abuser and become a likely victim of abuse:

• be born, especially born in the same house where abuser lives
• or god forbids, be born as abuser’s child
• be a human being
• happen to find yourself in a situation where an abuser has institutional or social authority and power over you
• exist anywhere near the abuser
• exist anywhere, if the abuser can contact or find you

thats pretty much it.