garrettauthor:

fairie-fawn:

respectthefemalebody:

If a man says he’s going to hurt himself unless you do what he says, let him. You aren’t responsible for his actions. You are not guilty for what he does to himself, you don’t owe him, you are not his thing to control, you don’t exist to serve him, you are allowed to go on living your life.

The same goes for a woman, like don’t let anyone do that to you. Men are more likely to do it, absolutely, but remember women can too, and to take care of YOURSELF in these situations. You are not accountable for someone else’s actions

100%. This is abusive tactics 101.