kinkywaifu:

hobbitkaiju:

thedatingfeminist:

moonrat666:

kneeccaps:

willurl:

just a reminder not to bring your kinks into public, especially with BDSM. that stuff stays in the bedroom. like queerness, BDSM is nothing to be ashamed of. UNLIKE queerness, BDSM is inherently sexual. please don’t get someone to chain you up to a bike rack or tug you around on a leash near taco bell. sex positivity is good, but make sure you’re still practicing sex safety – and that includes making sure children don’t get exposed to stuff that’s legitimately confusing and hard to understand!

also, for survivors of abuse?? don’t do this because survivors are in public spaces? because you have no way of knowing who has or has not survived an abusive relationship and by exposing them to things that traumatized them you are actively BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND HARMING THEM? because not being “ashamed of your kink” is not an excuse to throw it in people’s faces?

because forcibly involving or exposing unconsenting people to explicitly sexual acts without permission is sexual abuse

bolding for truth

bystanders have not consented. Bystanders have not consented. BYSTANDERS HAVE NOT CONSENTED TO BE PART OF YOUR SEX LIFE, SO YOU DON’T INCLUDE THEM IN IT.

^^^^^^