I am very much not a fan of tumblr’s general attitude of: “If you ship [insert pairing here], you are responsible for the fact that an underage someone somewhere was abused by an adult predator in fandom.” And that’s putting it mildly. Fuck that – I refuse to take responsibility for the actions of anyone else, whether or not I share a fandom with them.
The fandom referenced in the latest round of this I just encountered isn’t even a current one of mine, but I guess I’m feeling knee-jerk protective of 2004!me and her shipping choices.