Here’s some hard to swallow pills that’ll probably make people upset but is 100% the truth and idc.
You do not have to stay in a relationship with a mentally ill person if it becomes too much for you to handle. You are not their saviour, that’s not your responsibility to save them.
Any person who uses their mental instability to control you staying is a shitty person. IE “if you leave me I swear to god I’ll kill myself”, still not your responsibility, LEAVE.
The flannel seems a little big for him (the sleeves look long), so maybe it’s Sam’s? The cuff comes out much farther than it usually does on him.
He was originally wearing Bobby’s clothes, I presume, because his dug out of his own grave clothes were kind of shot when he goes to meet Sam but then he’s changed again after he and Sam hug it out.
After I made this, it was really bugging me because I was pretty convinced that brown jacket was Sam’s too (it’s buttoned back in the first gifs up there because it’s too long, I guess) and lo and behold
Sam’s corduroy jacket, which we see a few times throughout the series, but this one in particular was 3.10. And we can see it has the fleece lining.
which we can see is in the jacket Dean’s wearing, as the edge flaps in the wind, in 4.01 iafter Sam and Dean leave the demon cafe
And while we’re at it, that’s definitely Sam’s shirt too. Sam wore it in 2.04
The diamond buttons (I know the colors don’t look the same, but that’s because of my poor giffing skills shhhh)
There, curiosity and deep obsession with everything Dean Winchester satisfied.
Dean in Sam’s too-big clothes is fucking adorable. I know that’s not really the point of this. But that’s my first take-away.
It was kind of the point, no lie here. I am loving how the cuffs are too long he looks like a little kid in Sam’s clothes. It’s definitely adorable.
This makes so much sense though? Dean’s clothes are who knws where after he gets back from the dead and he wears Sam’s. I love this kind of detail in the costuming…
Wow, this post just blew my mind. The attention to detail in every department of this show blows my mind. Mind blown. Fuck.
What I enjoy most about the symbolical implications too is that Dean isn’t dressed in his own clothes when he meets Cas – properly face to face – for the first time. He’s dressed in clothes that are too big for him (like when he donned John’s leather jacket) and he’s trying to get back into his own skin again. The point here being that he actually won’t be allowed to. Cas is coming into his life to push for change and it may have taken a decade, but Dean’s finally getting into his own skin, his true shape, thanks to this angel of his.
Even though this symbology is an accidental byproduct of the absolutely sensible choice to put Dean in someone else’s threads after he’s been gone for four months and doesn’t exactly have his old wardrobe handy, it’s still a rather lovely coincidence.
“he just left in the middle of an argument” dump him
“he rolls his eyes when I start to cry” dump him
“we never agree on what movie to watch and we always go with his choice” dump him
“when he’s mad he’ll stand up straight and tower over me” dump him
“his friends make me uncomfortable” dump him
“he didn’t appreciate the gift I made him” dump him
“I don’t like that he drinks every day” dump him
“sometimes he ignores what I said during sex unless I say it again” dump him
“he told me he doesn’t like it when I wear my favorite sweater” dump him
“he threw something when he got mad once” dump him
“he won’t yell but sometimes he’ll just stop responding until I stop talking about it” dump him
“he doesn’t want me to go to my friend’s parties without him, but he never wants to go” dump him
“he pouts and says his last girlfriend did it for him” dump him
“he plays pranks on me that I don’t like” dump him
“he doesn’t think my jokes are very funny and makes fun of me for it” dump him
“he wants me to wear more make up” dump him
“he got angry that I cut my hair” dump him
“he still hasn’t met my parents” dump him
“he talks about me giving him kids, but we’ve never talked about our future” dump him
“he whines that condoms don’t feel as good” dump him
“I like having a boyfriend, but I have to put up with a lot for this one” dump him (:
how have i never heard of archive.org until today.. it’s an internet library that functions just like a real one, as in you borrow the books for 2 weeks and then they are returned to the archive. you can dl pdfs as well, but you’ll lose access after the 2 week period. it’s all free tho, literally just like a real library. i was searching for a cheap copy of this serial murder book from the 90s for my thesis and i found it for free on here. there’s like.. no gimmick at all? i’m so amazed. i literally just signed up and now i’m reading a super hq scan of this book for free. i love libraries.
Calling archive.org a lending library misses like, 95% of the point of having a deep database of most of the internet that goes back like, 22+ years. If you ever get an expired link, you put it there, and you’ve got a decent chance of being able to see the vanished page, in all its iterations.
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