I really don’t want to be that person, but ever since Cas let slip he doesn’t like Dean’s ‘lumberjack’ look, Dean’s stopped wearing plaid around him (Sam hasn’t, because why would he?). I mean, I don’t know what happens in between episodes, and apparently a lot does, but on screen, every single time Dean’s been with Cas after Rock Never Dies he’s chosen to wear a ‘normal’ shirt.
The only exception is S12E12, but, whatever, I’ll forgive that episode anything.
And, of course, for the purpose of this post costumes don’t count, so I haven’t included suits or anything, but just as a reminder, this is what Dean changed into after Cas’ bad-tempered comment – and I’m willing to bet half my liver those were not random clothes he had in his duffel – he went out and bought them, because lumberjack? I’ll show you who’s a fucking lumberjack. Dick.
Dude SAME! I think it was @k-vichan who I was chatting to about this at the time? Totally, yes. I mean it was pointed out to me that Dean doesn’t always wear plaid and Sam also varies, but it is still a valid point that it’s quite a lot more consistent since this that he hasn’t, especially around Cas, not to mention “Anything?!” Pfffff.
It also goes up there next to WHERE IS THE CLASSIC ROCK after this episode… and all the HONESTY.
The facade man… next he’ll be ordering chicken parmesan and openly watching Moana or something.
I literally can’t wait for 12×22 🙂
Oh also I feel like they’re making Cas’s coat extra horrible and ill fitting this season – I damn well hope there’s a reason for that.
before you ever even consider having a child you should be ready to handle a disabled child, you should be ready to handle twins, you should be ready to handle a gay child or a trans child
because if you’re not ready for your child to be anything other than one straight, cis, able bodied and able minded child, you’re going to end up neglecting and abusing somebody for years to come
and even if your child is all that, you might have a feminine boy or a masculine girl on your hands. so be fucking ready for your child to be a human being and not YOUR PRODUCT or PROPERTY or CREATION
fucking sort your shit out, i am so tired of shitty parental sob stories about how “hard” it is to “raise” (read: beat the divergency out of) an autistic child or whatever. do you know what’s harder? being the divergent child of parents who you’ve already let down by virtue of existing in a way they didn’t ask for. putting up with years of neglect and abuse because you’re just not good enough for them, you weren’t what they were planning for or expecting.
I found this parenting book for people whose kids have adhd that my mom bought when I was a kid and the whole first chapter was about “coping with the fact you didn’t get your dream child” and I felt devastated
Like it really messed me up
This is quite honestly a massive percentage of why I’m never having children. Raising a “normal” child would be bad enough, given my own mental illness and personality, which amounts to extreme introvert, and I know I’d be emotionally neglectful.
I can’t even imagine properly coping with a child whom shares any of my issues. It wouldn’t be fair to either them or me.